I understand that most people like a fresh start January 1st. This mentality for me each year would spur about two and a half weeks of change before I would resort back to the old habits. Last year I was sick of it and wrote this in my travel blog before I left to live in Europe:
“This year I’m going to take a different approach to life…no expectations, no limits, no resolutions, no regrets. 2010 was amazing but I feel like I was still always searching for things and people to make me happy. For the next 365 days I’m going to let things happen, take each day for what it is worth and in the words of my friend Kathy T I’m going to “do me” this time around (whatever that means) haha. I am finally ready to focus on me this year…however scary that might be to actually face and confront who I am. I’m so scared to leave my life here and live in a foreign country but for now I’m going to say... cheers to the unknown that won’t be solved by worrying, to the new friends I’ll meet, the old ones I will skype, the adventures I will have, the cobblestone roads I will get lost on, the homesickness I’ll undoubtedly feel, the new home I will create for myself and the endless possibilities for change that, good or bad, will make me who I am.”
I wish I could have known then just how exciting the unknown could be. Sometimes the most terrifying situations out of your comfort zone are the ones in which you find who you really are and help you become who you want to be. Take it one day, one minute at a time. There is no rush for perfection, instead embrace the beautiful imperfections you possess and use them for good. Spread joy to those around you and you will receive it back in full. Resolutions aren’t meant to be made one day of the year, they are meant to be made when change occurs regardless whether it is good or bad. Be you and free yourself from any expectations except your own. Stop comparing. Focus on the simple things. Feel yourself breathe, buy daisies at the store and don’t stop giving thanks for just being alive. Live and love in the present. Life isn’t about changing, it is about evolving. Go out this year and be limitless.


